Thursday 6 August 2015

Recovery is possible, I am living proof

I wanted to write this post for one of my beautiful readers who has just gone into inpatients. Even though she is really struggling right now, I just wanted to remind her that no matter how awful and impossible recovery seems, it is possible, I am living proof!  The following diary entry I wrote while in hospital as an inpatient shows just how bad my mental state was in hospital but since then I have made a complete transformation in my attitude. So to my friend and anyone else feeling as though recovery is too difficult, I promise it isn't. You can do it, you just have to believe in yourself <3 xx

29/10/12
OMG! I am so angry. At my my dietician, the kitchen staff and at the stupid bloody nurses. Once again, tonight my meal was friggen huge. I am so over this bull shit. Don't they get it? I don't need to gain any more weight, my doctor said that herself but no doubt I will. Not only has my diet stayed the same as what it was when I was gaining lots of weight, but I have been getting these extra massive teas as well. I know I am going to gain tones because of my fucking shit metabolism. I am so sick of this. My legs are so fat and my stomach is even getting bigger.

My meal tonight was fried rice (half a plate) and 3 huge pieces of pork plus the normal amount of vegetables. I mean where is the sense in that? The dietician makes me so mad. When we usually have meat and vegetables for tea. we have two pieces of meat so why, on a night when I get an extra half a plate of fried rice, would I get 3 pieces of meat? I just wanted to throw the food back In the nurses face when she gave it to me. Why must they do this. I am already back to being average. I don't fucking want that, let alone to get bigger still. I want to be skinny and beautiful like the other anorexic patient here.

I am going to talk to my dietician and something better be done. I feel like a fat pig. I AM A FAT PIG. I want to throw up so badly, but I know I will get caught and then they will take my daily walk off the ward away. What's the bloody point anyway. I go for half an hour and walk really fast but that means nothing when I am eating the amount I am. It was really hot and I walked 4 kilometers today in half an hour.  I have blisters on my feet but I still went faster and faster to try and prevent gaining more weight. and then I came home to that bull shit meal.

I am over it. I want to go home so badly so I can try and lose some weight. I want to be perfect. I don't want to be fat and ugly. I know that I can not be happy the way I am now. I don't care if I am damaging my health, at least I can feel proud of myself and happy. what's the point in being 'healthy' if I am disgusting and miserable with it. I feel so sick. I am so over this shit hole. I am sick of feeling fat and disgusting. why can't I be beautiful? Why can't I be skinny? Then I could be happy.

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  1. Just what I need today. Feeling really emotional and full of sadness that I can't just crack this. I've been so proud of my recovery, which has stood still and gone a little backwards. Saw my shrink today. He really is lovely - the reason I'm so distraut is I'm struggled for 35 years - scary hay. i'm so over it - yet why can't I let go. He's been seeing me for 30 years.He tells me I can do it but do I want to. I hate being so weak. I'm pushing ahead and I know I can do this for me and my family. He says hospital has never worked for me and now I need to stand up to it. I'm truly proud of you and you so inspire me to do better and win the war in my head. Well done and you really are beautiful and very special. If you can so can I. hugs and special prayers.

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    1. I am so glad that my post couuld be of some help to you Sonya. It makes me so sad to hear how long you have been battling anorexia. I cant even begin to imagine what it would be like to suffer for that long. You aren't weak, if you were you wouldn't have held on for so long. Your shrinkn is right, you can do it. You just have to believe you can. Thank you so much for saying those lovely things, they mean a lot. Keep fighting Sonya, you deserve to live a life free of anorexia! <3 xx

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